“The Third and Final Continent,”
the final chapter in Interpreter of Maladies, by Jhumpa Lahiri. The story is set
in 1964 and follows the journey of an Indian man who immigrates to Boston,
Massachusetts. Prior to his emigration from India, the narrators’ marriage had
been arranged and he flew from London, where he had been studying economics,
for his wedding. Because it was an arranged marriage he had not known the woman
who was to be his wife, and after their marriage he had left for Boston because
he had been offered a job at MIT. He finds living at the YMCA to be too noisy
and distracting for him, so he moves into a new home, owned by an elderly woman
named Mrs. Croft. The narrator forms a close relationship with Mrs. Croft; is
the first person he is able to form a close relationship with in America. The
narrator, however, must rent a new, furnished apartment and leave Mrs. Croft
when his wife, Mala, finally comes to live with him. They are complete
strangers and the narrator finds it difficult to form a connection with her
until he brings her to meet Mrs. Croft, who give her approval of Mala and
refers to her as “a lady.” It is the style of the relationships between
characters and the setting of this story that are the most important aspects of
what makes this story as powerful as it is.
In India, it was traditional and
normal for a husband and wife to have never known one another before they were
married. It is one of the many cultural differences one might experience when
traveling from India to America in the nineteen sixties, and that alone had a
profound impact on the narrators life. Mala was a complete stranger to the
narrator, as was he to her, and all of a sudden she had to move away from her
family, which deeply upset her, to live with a man she did not know. Living
together was awkward and uncomfortable for them, in the beginning, though they
behaved in manners with one another and did things for one another that were
typical for a husband and wife. He gave her money and she bought things to make
their home their own. The first time the narrator truly has a chance to open up
and allow his wife into his life is when he introduces her to Mrs. Croft.
When the narrator suggests that he
and Mala go for a walk, they end up going to Mrs. Crofts house, where Mrs.
Croft finds that she approves of Mala, and the narrator and his wife exchange a
smile for the first time. This encounter between Mrs. Croft, her daughter
Helen, Mala, and the narrator, triggered an increase in the time the narrator
and his wife spent together and was the catalyst for positive change in their
relationship. They were truly able to connect and begin forming their
relationship because of their time with Mrs. Croft. Later on, Mala is the one
who consoles the narrator when he learns of Mrs. Croft’s death, and the two
eventually decide to stay in America and have a son, who later went on to study
at Harvard University. Had the narrator never moved to Boston and found solace
in the home of Mrs. Croft, his relationship with his wife could have gone along
a different path, one which may have taken much longer for the two to grow
closer together or never have formed at all. They used their time in Boston as
a sort of honeymoon and explored the city together; they shared the experience
of moving to a new country as a couple, and that, and the death of the narrators’
first American friend, brought them closer together.
I agree with you in how awkward their relationship was at first. I found it quite cute the first time they had together in Boston. It was almost like that first date all over again...taken to that whole new level of marriage. Not only living together in Boston deeply upset Mala, but it was something she needed time to prepare for. Lahiri mentioned that after the marriage, even though they were only 5 miles away from her family, Mala was distraught. So obviously, moving to Boston with this 'husband' was a huge commitment for her. I almost wish we could have read more about this.
ReplyDeleteI do appreciate Mrs. Croft's character. Because of her, Lahiri and Mala are able to begin their relationship together, and to begin removing the awkward and silent tensions between them.
However, I disagree. Maybe if the narrator never moved to Boston, maybe things would have worked out for Lahiri and Mala. But because they moved to Boston and not any other city or town in America, and because of that they met Mrs. Croft, they were able to develop their relationship.
Boston is a liberal city, tolerant of new cultures. Lahiri is able to assimilate quite easily into the city and meet Mrs. Croft. It is because of these two factors that not only makes life easier for Lahiri and Mala in America, but also helps the tension between them. Because the last thing a budding relationship needs other than the tension between the two, is this foreign stress associated with living in a new, unfamiliar city.
I liked how your commentary pointed out the cultural differences that the story is build on. To us, in 2013 it seems insane that we would not get to pick our own spouse, and yet I agree with Sachin in that there was not an element o disgust. I found myself not feeling bad for them and thinking of them as a "normal" newly married couple. Rather than just two people who have met a few days earlier. Perhaps this is a commentary on how we get what we expect to get out of a situation. Lahiri seemed ready to take on the challenge of marriage and especially marriage to a stranger. Not only did the situation itself highlight cultural differenced but so did the city. Bosto is a modern, liberal city and the setting was crucial to the power of this story.
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